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Hey Doc,

My girlfriend and I have a great sex life and have been together (and sexually active) for over a year and a half. The sex is great, but I have one issue: She gives amazing oral sex, better than I've ever had before, yet I can’t come when she does it. I often come close, but I either "lose momentum" or just can't for some reason. I haven't had this problem with any other partners I've been with. I'm assuming this is all in my head, but why can't I climax when she gives me oral sex?

Thanks,

JG from Worcester, MA

I think you’re right that this is all in your head. It sounds like the Madonna/whore complex, where a guy psychologically separates sex with women into pure and good (Madonna) or downright dirty (whore).

Oral sex itself can be a very intimate act, but ejaculation during oral can have a porno feel to it. I wonder if deep down inside it’s difficult to imagine yourself coming, your girlfriend swallowing your man juice or you ejaculating on her face. It’s possible your mind is becoming an obstacle to ejaculation because you care about her, respect her and have feelings for her.

I’d ask her how she feels about you coming during oral sex and where you both would like the ejaculate to go. You can also manually finish yourself off when she has you close to ejaculation. She can provide added stimulation when you’re stroking yourself by playing with your testes, perineum or anus. Try bridging manual and oral. While you’re stroking, when you feel like you’re going to explode, have her finish you off orally. With practice and comfort, you’ll hopefully be able to gradually let go of the manual part during oral. Women love seeing men ejaculate just like we love seeing women orgasm. Watch the eyes, though; semen and eyeballs don’t mix so well.

lasting longer in bed

Dear Dr. Chaves,

First, I want to thank you for all of the support that will lead us to become Better Men. I’m 26 years old and my sex life is just amazing. I’ve read many articles about how to last longer in bed and how to use the stop-and-start method, and how to spread the energy all over your body when you feel so close. However, I found it impossible -- especially after 20 minutes of intercourse and when my partner tells me to go faster.

Last time we had sex, my girlfriend had nine orgasms in a row in just 20 minutes. Thankfully, she was so happy; however, for me, it was not enough. Thus, I want your advice on how to last at least for an hour.

Thanks,

BK, from Chicago

A bunch of guys are scratching their heads thinking 20 minutes isn’t enough -- WTF? How do you know it wasn’t enough for her? Did she tell you or is this an assumption?

It’s good to hear that you’re using the techniques out there (start-and-stop) and showing other guys that it does work if you give it a chance. Honestly, 20 minutes is a long time, but if you’re looking for more, my best advice is to go the tantric route and learn the art of multiple orgasms. You can teach yourself to separate orgasm from ejaculation so that you can remain erect while you orgasm and then choose when you want to ejaculate. It’s a matter of training, discipline and practice. Some people love this ability, others not so much.

I learned this technique a few years back, but eventually I went back to the old double whammy (orgasm/ejaculation simultaneously). If you’d like to acquire this skill, read The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Taoist Master Mantak Chia and follow its teachings and techniques. It’s a great guide to learning male multiple orgasms. You’ll turn that 20 minutes into an hour in no time.

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It seems that everyone is talking about multiple orgasms these days. What’s more is that it’s almost assumed that men have the necessary skills and abilities to give a woman an “O” face and make her come again and again. There’s a lot of pressure today for men to perform well and to know how to give a girl what she wants.

For some women multiple orgasms are like candy: they’re addictive, sweet and very satisfying. Orgasms that occur in succession, a steady stream of one after the other, are called the “serial multiple.” The “sequential orgasm” can be like a roller coaster ride interspersed with peaks and lulls with a few minutes between each incredible burst of ecstasy. Female orgasms can also be like scaling Mount Everest, a continuous buildup to one incredible peak.

All forms of orgasms are attainable, but it is up to the woman’s biology and preference to do so. It is folly to assume that she wants to ride that roller coaster or just scale Everest once in an evening. It is very important to communicate with her about what she wants and desires. Talk to her, listen to her and let her know that you want to pleasure her in the ways she wants. If she wants you to give her multiple orgasms, keep reading and put yourself in the know.

Create an atmosphere

Her comfort is paramount. In order to give her multiple orgasms, she’ll need to surrender herself to the experience, and she’ll need to be at ease to do so. You can help calm her mind and quell her inhibitions with a little environmental preparation that’s sure to put her on the road to sexual bliss. Clean sheets, downy pillows, tissues by the bed, soft lighting, and subtle scents in the air will aid in creating that easy atmosphere. Take a few minutes to clean your pad, take a shower and shave before she arrives. Also, set your cell phone to silent or turn it off. Finally, if she is a new or newer lover; cut the cord and remove any pictures that remain of your ex.

Sweet-talk her

While her body rests from its latest mind-blowing peak, keep the momentum and energy going with your mouth, mind, lips, and tongue. OK, you could go down on her, but I’m talking about keeping her mind sexually engaged and her body humming with sweet words. You will be able to maintain her physical desire if you describe and tell her how amazing she feels, how incredible she looks as she explodes, and how she’s driving you insane with her beautiful body. Be creative and inventive with your words. Women enjoy feeling a strong and firm grip on their body, so take hold of her as you ready her body for yet another orgasm. She’ll appreciate your pillow talk and physical desire. The sexier and more comfortable she feels, the more she’ll let go.

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Keeley Hazell – Kentish melon-farmer

If I’m swimming in a pool and my bikini pops off, I’m not bothered and carry on.

The proud owner of the nation’s finest frontage has spent recent years modelling too-small lingerie, starring in a slightly odd online technology show and melting FHM.com’s servers on a weekly basis (don’t worry – we’re sending her the bills).
She’s also conquered the US, with “Keeley Hazell” a more common search term than “David Beckham”. Even more so when prefixed with “topless”, we’re guessing. But what next? Following her infamous ‘independent film’, the rumour mills are all pointing to Hollywood.

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For anybody looking for a little bit of paradise not too far from mainland UK, with unspoilt beaches and charm in abundance, the beautiful island of Jersey is just waiting to be discovered. Whether you are into caravanning, planning to do a spot of camping, or looking forward to a relaxing stay at one of Jerseys luxury hotels, there is an option for everybody.

For such a charming place, many people know little about Jersey and perhaps just don’t consider it when planning a break away. Located 100 miles off the coast of Britain, it is the most southerly island of the British Isles – in fact it is much closer to France, only 14 miles from its coast. It is only 9 miles by 5 miles – certainly a compact size – but it packs alot in, including some beautiful luxury hotels for the discerning traveller.

Jerseys Luxurious Hotels – Fine Dining, Relaxation And Famous Hospitality
Great meals out and fine wines are a big part of any holiday – and for a special occasion visit one of Jerseys deluxe hotels, The Club Hotel & Spa, which has the only Michelin starred restaurant on the island. This five star boutique hotel is home to the Bohemia Restaurant, which also has 4 AA rosettes. It’s head chef Shaun Rankin if fast making a name for himself and has featured on BBC2’s The Great British Menu.

If you choose to holiday at one of Jerseys luxury hotels, you will also be on the receiving end of Jerseys famous hospitality and charm. Many of the sophisticated hotels in Jersey will have a concierge who will be able to guide you through your stay – and maybe even teach you a few words of the local language Jerriais – Jersey French. Though English is the predominant language, this charming local dialect is still in use and delights tourists who hear it.

Maybe you are in need of a much-needed day of rest and relaxation – Jerseys finest hotels are home to some famous spas. Those escaping from the stress of everyday life and seeking to re-align their doshas will think they have died and gone to heaven after a weekend at the Ayurvedic spa located in Hotel de France.

Get Away From It All

The Top 10 World’s Most Exclusive and Expensive Hotel Rooms

I wish I could live in the life of luxury, traveling around the world, having the ability to spend outrageous amounts of money to stay in the most expensive and exclusive hotel rooms in the world! What a great life; having a private pool, 10 bedroom suites, my own butler on call 24/7, chef, having an entire floor to myself, a private beach, and having a second floor to my hotel suite.

What a fabulous life the most wealthy world traveler’s and celebrities have, being able to dish out thousands of dollars for a room per night and not even thinking twice about it. I can only dream or look through luxurious magazines or hear about different celebrities jet setting to the most expensive hotels around the world.

The Royal Villa at The Grand Resort Lagonissi in Athens, Greece is the most expensive hotel room per night I found in the entire World. For one single night it costs $50,000 to stay in the Royal Villa. The Royal Villa was designed for a King, it comes with the most luxurious amenities, everything one can possibly imagine: butler, chef, pianist, indoor and out door pools and a private beach. Wow! I can imagine staying in this Royal Villa, I would feel like a Queen. This outrageous Royal Villa costs more a night than most people make in a year.

Everyone knows this Hotel in Las Vegas, The Palms Casino Resort has the second most expensive hotel room, a staggering $40,000 per night. I first saw the outrageous two story hotel room with a $700,000 enormous hot tub on the balcony, overlooking the Las Vegas Strip on the popular show on VH1 “The Girls Next Door.” This is the place to stay in Las Vegas, the Hugh Hefner Sky Villa, staying in this room i would be treated like a celebrity, exactly how Hugh Hefner would want to be treated.

The Ty Warner Penthouse at the Four Seasons hotel in New York City costs per night to stay in the penthouse is $34,000. The Ty Warner Penthouse has a spectacular elegance to it, it over looks the entire city of New York City with 360-degree views. This penthouse has more bedrooms in it than my house, or most people’s houses, it has nine bedroom suites in it!

This penthouse has everything: indoor outdoor zen garden, library, private butler and private chauffeur! The Royal Penthouse Suite at the President Wilson Hotel in Geneva, Switzerland has the entire top floor of the hotel for it’s room and cost $33,000 per night. Celebrities, public officials and the super rich stay in this Royal Penthouse Suite, it has bulletproof windows and its own private elevator to the suite. The Penthouse overlooks Lake Geneva.

The Bridge Suite at The Atlantis in Paradise Island, Bahamas is located actually on a bridge, the bridge suite connects two towers of the hotel. How cool is that? A bridge suite. It only costs $25,000 per night! hehe…I heard Oprah, Paris Hilton and Michael Jackson have stayed on this Bridge Suite in the Bahamas.

The Presidential Suite at Hotel Cala di Volpe in Costa Smeralda, Italy is in a exclusive Mediterranean location, where this magnificent hotel is located, the presidential suite runs $21,000 per night and doubles in the summer to $42,000. This private Mediterranean location is where the world’s wealthiest people and celebrities gather. This presidential suite has an outdoor salt water pool, private wine cellar and private fitness gym.

The Royal Suite at Burj Al Arab Hotel in Dubai is extraordinary, viewing the pictures of the hotel it looks like a palace for a King. To stay in the Royal Suite it costs $18,000 per night, the suite is covered with marble and gold, the royal suite has a private cinema and a grand gold staircase.

- The Ritz-Carlton Suite at the Ritz-Carlton Hotel in Moscow, Russia is $16,000 per night.

- The Imperial Suite at the Park Hyatt in Vendome, Paris is $15,500 per night,
- The Penthouse Suite at Hotel Martinez in Cannes, France is $9,300 per night then it goes to $48,000 during the Cannes Film Festival.

These are the top 10 most expensive and most exclusive hotel rooms I found around the world. What a great experience it would be to actually stay and enjoy a week at one of these hotels. The pictures I came across when researching this topic were outrageous and amazed me that there were actually hotel rooms like those. My mouth dropped and I caught myself drooling and imagining one day I want to be in those suites.

My favorite one? guess…It was the Royal Villa at Grand Resort Lagonissi in Athens, Greece. If one day I become a millionaire i would definitely go to Athens and stay at the Grand Resort Lagonissi in the Royal Villa.

mengerti wanita berdasarkan Perilaku Seks dari Bentuk Payudara

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INILAH.COM, Jakarta – Seorang peneliti seks dari Italia mengatakan bahwa ia bisa menebak kepribadian seorang perempuan melalui bentuk payudara.

Piero Lorenzoni yang juga konsultan seks di sebuah harian di Jerman mengatakan, bentuk dan ukuran payudara menentukan karakter seorang perempuan.

Ia mengkategorikan tipe payudara berdasarkan buah-buahan. Bahkan ia mengatakan bahwa seorang pria bisa membuat grafik yang mengindikasikan apa yang ditunjukkan oleh ukuran dan bentuk payudara seorang perempuan.

Diagram buah dimulai dari buah melon. Menurut Lorenzoni, seorang perempuan dengan payudara agak lebar dan membulat seperti melon, biasanya memiliki karakter sangat keibuan. Tapi untuk masalah seks, mereka biasanya lebih senang dimanja dan dikagumi.

Bagi pria yang ingin seorang perempuan yang lebih bergairah, sebaiknya memilih perempuan dengan bentuk payudara seperti lemon. Biasanya mereka yang memiliki payudara seperti ini agak sedikit liar dan terbuka.

Sedangkan payudara yang agak sedikit berbentuk oval, menurut Lorenzoni, adalah payudara berbentuk nanas. Biasanya perempuan dengan tipe payudara ini adalah perempuan pintar, sukses dalam karir, juga romantis. Mereka juga tipe setia. Siapapun yang telah memenangkan hati perempuan ini, tidak akan mau melepaskannya.

Perempuan dengan bentuk payudara seperti jeruk, tidak akan membuat Anda bergairah. Menurut Lorenzoni, perempuan dengan bentuk payudara seperti ini lebih cenderung memilih untuk bercakap-cakap saja dibanding bercinta.

Sementara itu perempuan dengan payudara kecil, menurut Lorenzoni, sangat menyenangkan dan menggairahkan. Karena mereka lebih ceria, menghibur Anda, dan juga cerdas. Mereka juga sangat-sangat tertarik dengan seks.